Sunday, May 27, 2018

How To Communicate To A Husband Hard Of Hearing

By Nancy Walker


At times, we are born with all our senses working. Over time, or with old age, some of the senses like hearing and seeing to fail. At other time they just fail without reason. Sometimes we just have to live with the condition we find ourselves in. Sometimes, it is our friends or loved ones suffering from such conditions. Below are tips on how to communicate to a husband hard of hearing.

Get the attention of the person before you begin to speak. For a person with hearing problems, it takes a lot of concentrating in order to follow a conversation. Therefore, tap them to show them that you want to talk to them and that way, they will not have a difficult time trying to understand what you will be talking about.

It is obvious that you cannot see in the dark. The same way, a person can sometimes not hear what you might be saying even if their listening aid is on. To make it easier for them, make sure you are always facing them when you speak so that they are able to read your lips. The hearing aid only makes the sound louder for them to hear not clearer.

Enunciate as much as you can and maintain a steady pace of talking. Enunciating makes it clearer to hear whatever is being said. The steady pace of speech gives the person a chance to read your lips and understand you. If you speak too fast they may not at all understand what you are saying while speaking too slow makes lip reading harder.

As you already know, concentration is key in order to communicate to a person experiencing difficulty in hearing. Therefore, the background noise should be kept to a minimum. For example, the fan should be kept low or even the AC. If you are going out, you should make a point of choosing a corner booth that is well lit up for the person to read your lips.

At times, it is usually a group of people hanging out. You may be very excited but it is difficult to consider the person with trouble hearing. You should make an effort to face the person as you speak and make sure they can see you. You should also not speak at the same time. Take turns to avoid excluding the person.

The first few letters of a word can give a person an idea of what is being discussed. Therefore, you can spell the letters of a word that is hard to get. You should also not be tired of repeating a phrase several times in case they did not get it on the first try. Ultimately, you can choose to rephrase the words altogether and make them simpler.

Do not treat the person as if they were so delicate. The same way you would find humor when a normal person misunderstands, you should do the same. At the end of the day, it will be a lot of fun and they will be more comfortable speaking to you.




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